I just wanted to ask you all if its not too much, that you can pray for me? Please pray to help preserve the love for myself and my fiancee, that our paths may always be connected, and that we'll be able to be with eachother for the rest of our lives. He really is a nice guy, and me mum is highly against dating, but it isnt like that, we actually care for one another. I feel she dosnt understand. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you for taking the time to read! Id really appretiate it!!! <3
Much love, flowerpower
PS: If u wish to give me advice, i humbly ask by all means go right ahead. i can use good guidance right now. Any advice is most helpful! Thank you very kindly <3
Flowerpower - I know that Spirit has a wonderful plan for you and your fiance - and if you trust and allow your faith to guide you, everything will fall into place. Give your mom some time to adjust - it's hard to see our children become involved with someone else - it makes parents think they are losing their children or they are afraid they will get hurt and repeat the parents' mistakes. Relationships can be very complicated when we deal with them strictly on the human, emotional level. But go into your heart of hearts and listen for the guidance you will find there from GodSpirit - always put your trust in this, and do not let fear, panic, anger, jealousy, or any other destructive emotion direct your decisions. It's better to withdraw and stay away for a while when you can clear your thinking than to make rash decisions that you will have to live by or to say harsh or hurtful words that can't be taken back.
Make sure any relationship you want to get involved in is truly what you want in your heart and that it's not guided by fear or worry that you won't find someone - go into it as a strong person and if the other person is strong too then you will have a great relationship. But don't mistake strength, confidence, and compassion with dominance, control, or being over-bearing. Many times people get in relationships and think the other person really cares for them, but in fact they are controlling and domineering. Always retain your own self-confidence and independence. Being able to take care of yourself doesn't mean you are not able or willing to be in a relationship - but other people will be less likely to take advantage of you if you keep a clear head - and a clear heart. Don't do anything you will be sorry for later - if in doubt, ask yourself, can I live with this decision I'm making for the rest of my life?
My prayer for you and your fiance is that you will always be honest with each other, respectful, loving, compassionate, understanding, and willing to deal with things rather than fight unfairly - and most of all, love ye one another with an every-loving unconditional love (not to be confused with a love that allows abuse - you don't have to do that).
May God grant you the serenity to accept each other as you are, encourage growth and change in each other and together, peacefully leaving those things that won't be changed, and working together to create and evolve together the best you can, and always the wisdom to know the difference.
God Bless all of you - and many wishes for happiness and love always...
You are in my prayers...all will be well. Just stay centered in Spirit, and seek your guidance from that place of inner stillness.
If you are ever in doubt...then, as Oprah says, "Doubt means don't". Wait until you feel certain before you act on anything.