R14 Day 1 Wednesday
Today I had stomach ache but I still went to the temple and after that I went to music class as well as meditation… I wonder now the pain has gone.
R14 Day 1 Thursday
Today I went to do joint prayers and also sent a letter for my friend who could not come for the prayer. She wishes to pass her teacher exam and become a teacher soon. Later in the evening we went to see Guruji as he was in town and waited to see him and managed to get his blessings.
R14 Day 3 Friday
Today we went to music class and had fun singing the songs.
R14 Day 4 Saturday
Today I called my friend who at that time was having neck pain and could not turn herself, gave her some advise and asked her to say prayers.
R14 Day 5 Sunday
Today’s prayer is for a father who wants his son who is separated from his wife for the past 10 years to join her and be a happy family
R14 Day 6 Monday
Today’s prayer is for a lady who wants peace in her family and for her family members.
R14 Day 7 Tuesday
Today’s prayer is for a lady with joint knee pain. She wants to get well soon and for her daughter to be bold and brave in her job and get good name.
R14 Day 8 Wednesday
Today went to learn zardozi… managed to do one flower but it is very tough job. Helped the craft lady to send prayers to namadwar. Today mad with my son as he would not listen at all…. He has holiday today so he would not budge from the tv and when I tell him to go for his tuition he does not even move… I get very mad and scold him and he calls me all kinds of name…. what a son to have. I wish I had a good obedient son who listens to his parents and does not call us all kinds of names and gives respect… I also managed to listen to one lady whose brother is going through the stage after accident and he is not getting well yet after 8 months. They are having trouble trying to take care as his family is not able to cope so they are looking for someone to look after him when they are away at work. I asked her to pray and I too will pray for her. Please help to pray for this person to get well soon. thanks
R14 Day 9 Thursday
Today I went to group prayers for all our solutions.
R14 Day 10 Friday
Today I participated in Villakku poojai (this is a ceremony where married ladies and girls pray to the goddess for all benefits) It was nice and we enjoyed it very much.
R14 Day 11 Saturday
I went along with my friend to the shops and later to the temple as she wanted to go and so did I…. We had a nice time waiting in the long crowded queue and was shocked to hear that they close within 1 and half hours of waiting… as we went at 4 pm and then after at 5.30 they closed and will only open at 7pm…. Woo we have to wait extra hours so we cut the queue came out and visited other gods who were open for us to see and then went and had dinner with another friend… He was actually telling us about few lords and their stories… we managed to see Andal, Ramanujar… according to him… Ramanujar samathi is here and his statue is created with wax and we luckily managed to see him, and then we went to Kodanda Ramar and few more gods…. Then we had to go home and we reach home almost 8.30pm. Today I managed to give few ladies some bangles, flowers, kumkum, tumeric, manjal kayiru, blouse piece, pakku, vethilai as my friend advised me to give to those who are poor. We managed to find some of them who were working at the temple and gave away.
R14 Day 11 Sunday
Today our son has to study for his moral, gk and computer but hooo hooo no matter how many times I tell him to study he goes off to play with his toys…. Or see tv…. I guess this preterm he will get all zeros as he has been not studying properly… I let his father try to teach but now he knows that his son does not want to study at all…. As he purposely sleeps and wont get up in the morning as he knows we want him to study for his exams…. Well Monday is the last exams… I hope he studies well…..
R14 Day 12 Monday
Today I went to craft and leart to do leaf…. But not too good…. And I was a bit jealous to see the other lady sitting and doing as I have to share the same cloth with her but can’t sit as no much place for me… so I tried on another bit of cloth….. Then later did on that cloth…. Later I took my daughter to music class… and I feel odd about this friend…. well She is a different type and I feel bad to be her friend…. well the last week she called one of the friend who was with me at the music class to give her some vadai and the music teacher too… but I felt left out…. No not that I want the vadai… no I feel very bad…. Then today I see two of them join together and chit chat and the other lady sitting beside me also joins them and leaves me out as if I am not wanted there….. that’s why I feel very bad…. Well I just don’t bother… but later those two sit beside me as if nothing happen… but my face is solemn… thinking why should I sit here so I move out for a while and chit chat with other children then come back and then the lady talks…. I am not sure if I have to talk or not…. Well what to do I just say yes or no and leave…